The Tao of the insulting, Snubbing, Teasing female.
Jun 28, 2023 8:40:57 GMT -5
Post by Radrook Admin on Jun 28, 2023 8:40:57 GMT -5
The Tao of the insulting, Snubbing, Teasing female.
Before we delve into the details and the reasons for this behavioral phenomenon, please keep in mind that every single society expects a certain behavior considered appropriate from its females. Such behaviors are inculcated via the process of socialization at school, at home, and places of worship, and serve to guide females in the way that they are expected to behave.
Of course, there are cultural differences. However, in most societies, it's considered inappropriate and unfeminine for females to aggressively pursue a male and openly show intense interest. For this reason, females who feel attracted to a certain male, will feel forced to find other subtle ways to make their interest known.
So in an effort to circumvent these social barriers, and still retain their image of femininity, human females have adopted the following strategies in order to catch the male's attention and motivate him into pursuing them.
1. Teasing: Remarks that are humorous are often used.
2. Snubbing: Showing disinterest or acting as if the male doesn't exist.
3. Insulting or disparaging verbally or via actions.
Now, when the male takes the bait and persists and overcomes these strategies, the female secretly admires him and feels seduced. In such cases the strategy succeeds in its intentions.
So what is the problem? Well, the problem is that we as males very often don't understand such strategy and feel extremely offended instead.
For example, just recently, I watched a video where this human female teased this human male, and sprinted away giggling. Reaction? He went totally berserk, knocking her down and kicking her into unconsciousness.
I also watched a video where this fellow felt rejected and humiliated, and was savagely using the most hideously filthy insults against the female because he felt humiliated and needed to strike back in some way.
Now, because of the potential for such misunderstandings, insulting and snubbing males in order to spark their interest is a risky business in certain cultures. So it is wise for the female to be very careful in her efforts by understanding that in certain cultures, males are generally totally ignorant of the problems that females face in this matter and that they will often totally misunderstand their intentions unless they have been specifically taught to expect such female strategy.
In the USA, this seems not to be the case. So all such type of behavior will elicit there will very likely be male frustration and anger.
Of course, there are cultural differences. However, in most societies, it's considered inappropriate and unfeminine for females to aggressively pursue a male and openly show intense interest. For this reason, females who feel attracted to a certain male, will feel forced to find other subtle ways to make their interest known.
So in an effort to circumvent these social barriers, and still retain their image of femininity, human females have adopted the following strategies in order to catch the male's attention and motivate him into pursuing them.
1. Teasing: Remarks that are humorous are often used.
2. Snubbing: Showing disinterest or acting as if the male doesn't exist.
3. Insulting or disparaging verbally or via actions.
Now, when the male takes the bait and persists and overcomes these strategies, the female secretly admires him and feels seduced. In such cases the strategy succeeds in its intentions.
So what is the problem? Well, the problem is that we as males very often don't understand such strategy and feel extremely offended instead.
For example, just recently, I watched a video where this human female teased this human male, and sprinted away giggling. Reaction? He went totally berserk, knocking her down and kicking her into unconsciousness.
I also watched a video where this fellow felt rejected and humiliated, and was savagely using the most hideously filthy insults against the female because he felt humiliated and needed to strike back in some way.
Now, because of the potential for such misunderstandings, insulting and snubbing males in order to spark their interest is a risky business in certain cultures. So it is wise for the female to be very careful in her efforts by understanding that in certain cultures, males are generally totally ignorant of the problems that females face in this matter and that they will often totally misunderstand their intentions unless they have been specifically taught to expect such female strategy.
In the USA, this seems not to be the case. So all such type of behavior will elicit there will very likely be male frustration and anger.
Addendum
Please note that the male should not assume that the woman is playing hard to get in all cases. There are indeed cases where he is indeed being snubbed and insulted because he is genuinely physically disliked or considered a jerk.
In short, we men are not mind-readers. So many of us who have been misled and frustrated by such antics will justifiably not respond in the way we are perhaps being expected to. In other words such strategy can backfire, which is understandable. However, what is NOT understandable and never acceptable is a male reacting of physically attacking a female as was shown in the video. Simply not associating with the female should have been suffice.
In short, we men are not mind-readers. So many of us who have been misled and frustrated by such antics will justifiably not respond in the way we are perhaps being expected to. In other words such strategy can backfire, which is understandable. However, what is NOT understandable and never acceptable is a male reacting of physically attacking a female as was shown in the video. Simply not associating with the female should have been suffice.