Male Fragile Ego Accusation Justified?
Nov 4, 2023 19:48:58 GMT -5
Post by Radrook Admin on Nov 4, 2023 19:48:58 GMT -5
Male Fragile Ego Accusation Justified?
I recently watched a video on Twitter where, in this this crowd of celebrating people walking as bomba music was being played, this muscular dude began making copulation motions against the butt of a woman accompanied by either her boyfriend or husband.
Now, the boyfriend, or husband, responded by dripping some refreshment on the dude's head, but it didn't faze him at all. Why? Because the dude's girlfriend or wife responded to the lewd advances by cooperating in the copulation motions. The man protested, but his wife or girlfriend became angered and left him, and stayed with the offending dude.
Curiously, and surprisingly, when I criticized the aggressor, and the dude's wife or girlfriend for her disrespectful behavior, someone on Twitter said that such copulation gestures are a normal way of communicating among Caribbean blacks during Bomba dancing, and that the husband or boyfriend was being male-sensitive or displaying a typically male fragile ego.
Now, I am from the Caribbean, and have watched many Bomba dances. Yet, I have never observed that kind of disrespectful sexually suggestive move made the female dancers nor on the women watching.
So I responded that if someone attempted such a lewd gesture on someone's girlfriend or wife or mother or sister in Puerto Rico, it was very unlikely that he would leave that place alive. The woman responded by sarcastically thanking me for reminding her just how fragile the male ego is.
Now, is she indeed justified in considering such a reaction to that type of behavior as being ego fragile? Well, I honestly don't believe so. Most men, as well as most women, are extremely sensitive to someone physically touching their lovers publicly in that lewd fashion, and in fact, would have reacted violently towards any person attempting it.
After all, the insult is doubled since it was being attempted in the presence of the person whom the dude had assumed was the woman's mate, as if he didn't even exist or if he did exist, then they he was absolutely nothing to be concerned about. Male sensitive? Not by a long-shot.
Now, the boyfriend, or husband, responded by dripping some refreshment on the dude's head, but it didn't faze him at all. Why? Because the dude's girlfriend or wife responded to the lewd advances by cooperating in the copulation motions. The man protested, but his wife or girlfriend became angered and left him, and stayed with the offending dude.
Curiously, and surprisingly, when I criticized the aggressor, and the dude's wife or girlfriend for her disrespectful behavior, someone on Twitter said that such copulation gestures are a normal way of communicating among Caribbean blacks during Bomba dancing, and that the husband or boyfriend was being male-sensitive or displaying a typically male fragile ego.
Now, I am from the Caribbean, and have watched many Bomba dances. Yet, I have never observed that kind of disrespectful sexually suggestive move made the female dancers nor on the women watching.
So I responded that if someone attempted such a lewd gesture on someone's girlfriend or wife or mother or sister in Puerto Rico, it was very unlikely that he would leave that place alive. The woman responded by sarcastically thanking me for reminding her just how fragile the male ego is.
Now, is she indeed justified in considering such a reaction to that type of behavior as being ego fragile? Well, I honestly don't believe so. Most men, as well as most women, are extremely sensitive to someone physically touching their lovers publicly in that lewd fashion, and in fact, would have reacted violently towards any person attempting it.
After all, the insult is doubled since it was being attempted in the presence of the person whom the dude had assumed was the woman's mate, as if he didn't even exist or if he did exist, then they he was absolutely nothing to be concerned about. Male sensitive? Not by a long-shot.